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                        Incontinence is very common during menopause,  The loss in estrogen can add to atrophy of the pelvic muscles and if you ever had children, the problem is magnified.  I can't explain the night problems.  I would like to know more about your pelvic history--surgeries, pregnancies, types of deliveries.  Physical therapists who specialize in this treatment can help you.  If you have any other specific questions, please ask.