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                        I am only 45 but am already past  menopause. I still get hot flashes on rare occasion but periods have stopped about 3 yrs ago and all other menopausal syptoms are gone. Also, my hormones were tested so - young but true.  Since then, I have barely a sex drive.  I used to be quite passionate and love my husband dearly and we have a good relationship.  He is very hurt that I don't desire him the way I used to and I don't like not having the drive.  What can I do??  On TV they advertise things that can help woman. I guess I should discuss this with my doc?  Any suggestions?  Is this common?  Some women I talk to say they were MORE sexually active after menopause and then it makes me feel bad.